1. The enquiry and screening conversation
It starts with a private enquiry — through the website or directly by phone or email. Every new enquiry is reviewed personally before anything is confirmed: a short conversation, age verification, and an honest check that the session is the right fit for you both. Nothing is booked automatically from a form alone. This step exists for your safety as much as anyone else's, and a practitioner who skips it entirely isn't one worth trusting.
2. Mapping your comfort and preferences
Before your session, you'll be asked to complete a short Comfort Map — intention, pressure, touch style, focus areas, and any no-go areas — at your own pace, in private. It shapes the session, but it's never binding: every answer can change, including in person, at any time. Its purpose is simple — to start the conversation about boundaries before you're in the room, so you're not doing that thinking cold on the day.
3. Arriving
Sessions take place somewhere private and unhurried — there's no rushing at the door. Take the time you need to settle before anything begins. If anything about the space or the day doesn't feel right, that's something to say from the very start, not something to push through.
4. The session itself
A typical session moves through several natural stages, at a pace shaped around you rather than a fixed routine:
- Arrive — settling in, with no pressure to rush into anything.
- Ground — coming into the body and the present moment before any deeper work begins.
- Flow — the main body of the session, shaped by what you agreed together.
- Awaken — if chosen, the experience can become more sensual and embodied.
- Integrate — the pace slows so your body has time to settle.
- Return — space to transition back into your day without being rushed.
Throughout, consent stays specific and ongoing — checked as the session moves, not assumed from the booking. You're free to pause, redirect or stop at any point, for any reason.
5. Aftercare
A session like this can bring up more than the physical — calm, emotion, tiredness, even unexpected feelings are all normal afterward. Good aftercare means not being rushed out the door: time to reorient, talk briefly if you want to, and leave when you're actually ready, not when the clock says so.
Practical logistics
- Duration: sessions are typically 60–120 minutes, chosen when you book.
- Pricing: typically £100–£350 depending on length and your needs, confirmed with you directly before payment.
- Payment: by bank transfer or in cash on the day. A small deposit by bank transfer may be requested to hold your date.
- What to bring: nothing specific is required — comfort is the only real consideration.
If you're still nervous
That's genuinely fine, and common. First-time clients can choose a slower orientation, and there is no obligation for anything intimate to happen at all. The entire structure above exists precisely so that the pace is yours to set — not the other way around.